Escort Safety - Bad Client Registry

Delist and Removal Requests

This page is for all people who have learned that they are listed in our registry.

We reccomend you read the entire page!

Purpose for this Page: Each week we receive emails from many unhappy men. And our email responses are all so similar we decided to create this page to address the common issues.You can consider this page the...

"Most Frequently Asked Questions and Points Debated."

Just to get this out of the way. If you write us with bullying and hostile demands, threats of going to the police, or your lawyer, we are under instructions from our attorneys to not respond. When we receive a court order to remove a post, we'll let our attorneys handle it form there.

If you decide to write us and you present us with something already addressed on this page, we will simply refer you back to this page. If your circumstances are not addressed on this page we will give you the courtesy of responding to your unique insights on a case by case basis. Please note that once we've made a determination, we will not argue or endlessly debate issues, subtle or otherwise, with you.

So, with that being said...

Do you have the following questions or issues?

What is National Blacklist?
How did my name get on this website?
There's a false report about me on this site! What can I do?
What if a report was posted anonymously?
If I get the original author of a report to send a retraction demand, will National Blacklist remove the post?
Shouldn’t National Blacklist review and verify all complaints before they are posted?
I want the post regarding me removed immediately?
What if the original author asks to remove her post?
If I file a lawsuit against National Blacklist, will that get my complaint removed?
I Know the CDA Protects National Blacklist, But I still want to sue National Blacklist anyway!
I want the name of someone who posted an anonymous report about me. How can I get that?
Someone posted a report which violates National Blacklists’ Terms of Service. Will you remove it?
No membership necessary to post? So anyone can just post anything they want on your website and ruin someone’s reputation?
I wasn’t in that city at that date and time, so the report must be false!
Our Responsibility, and Hard-line Position
Have we ever removed a posting?
Regarding ladies who do not own up to a post:
You are on the Whitelist. Doesn’t that account for anything?
The Escort is retired or no longer in the business:
National Blacklist can be used to Extort or Blackmail Customers?
Similar Name hurting your reputation?
Use of your last name in a report. "Please Remove My Last Name.”
Your name is "Copyrighted.”
Threatening us with the Police, or your Attorneys.
No Shows and Last Minute Cancellations
Our Mission
Legal Action

1. Introduction: What is National Blacklist? National Blacklist is like a "neighborhood watch program" for escorts (adult service providers) where they can share their bad customer experiences and make reports to warn independent escorts and/or escort agencies about their dangerous or bad customer encounters. We're just like a credit bureau or criminal background check resource tool where escorts and escort agencies can search our registry to see if anyone has made any complaints about a potential customer so that they can make an informed decision when it comes to deciding whether to book that customer.

Now that you know who we are, let us tell you what we have to deal with regularly. National Blacklist receives lots of complaints from male individuals who claim that reports about them are false, unfair, inaccurate, and defamatory. These men usually threaten to contact their lawyers and sue National Blacklist for defamation unless the reports and statements regarding them are removed immediately. If you are considering sending us such a notice or demand, this page and the following information is intended to provide you with information that may help you to better understand the situation and your rights, as well as the rights of the escorts who have posted reports here. You need to understand that threats against National Blacklist are ineffectual, and will not result in the removal of any posts.

2. "How did my name get on this website?" If your name appears in our registry, it is with the understanding that you had some communication with an escort, or an appointment with an escort, that in some went awry. Escorts can post for all sorts of reasons up to and including callers being rude and disrespectful, callers trying to rip them off or being scammers, customers being verbally or physically abusive.

3. "There's a false report about me! What can I do?" The first thing you cannot do is demand that we remove the report because it is false and that somehow we MUST take YOUR word over some lowly escort. That level of arrogance and disrespect may pretty much bear out why you are listed here in the first place. Your word or “say so” has no credibility with us. We don’t know you, any more than the escort who made the post. We have no idea if the information posted is false or not, but according to our Terms of Agreement, users must not make false statements or accusations, so until proven all false posters are given the benefit of the doubt. You writing us and telling us that the information isn’t true simply doesn’t make your denials any more valid than the assertions in the escort’s report, and we aren’t going to get in the middle of your “he said, she said” accusations to determine who is right. That’s not what we do. The users and members of this site are responsible for their posts, and if a post is made, it remains because they’ve agreed to the Terms of Use which states they will not make false statements.

Secondly, you cannot sue National Blacklist, because the law just does not allow this. We are a third party posting informational exchange platform and we do not accept responsibility for the posts our users make. Nor will US Federal law according to the Communications Decency Act, hold us accountable for the postings our users make. Of course, you can always try and sue the person who wrote the report if it actually contains false and defamatory information about you, and you will have to successfully prove that in a court of law. But first you will have to obtain a court order to acquire the user’s information, and that will then be provided only if the author’s information is available and the report was not posted anonymously.

4. What if the report was filed anonymously? If a report was submitted anonymously, meaning it was not signed with the author's name or email address, it is still accepted and we will stand by it, so long as it is a legitimate experience consistent with what an escort would experience during a bad customer encounter.

If a report is submitted anonymously, we assume it was the intent of the author who may have had any number of acceptable reasons due to the nature of this website and the adult industry for which it serves. The reasons are usually to maintain privacy and anonymity to avoid pressure, threats, retribution, or reprisal from the offenders or their associates.

According to law makers, many people want and have the right to make complaints anonymously without fear of retaliation or pressure, that comes with exposure. Therefore, until the laws of this country are changed, we reserve the right to protect the intentions of the authors who submit their posts, regardless of whether their posts are anonymous or not. We don't assume (like many of you men would want us to) that a post must be invalid just because it was submitted anonymously. We assume the post was made in good faith, and for fear of retribution, we will stand by the posts and the author's/poster's Free Speech rights, until we are forced otherwise by a court order to remove them.

* Despite many of you who have tried to argue this point, anonymous posts do not invalidate the legitimacy of the complaint, nor does it invalidate the rights of the person to make such posts. The Supreme Court of the United States on three separate occasions since 1997 has upheld the Free Speech rights of anonymous complaints in regard to internet gripe sites. These laws serve to protect the individual’s rights to make such postings, and the websites that host such postings.

5. "If I can get the original author of a post to send a retraction demand, will National Blacklist remove the complaint?" No. If you get the original author to retract her report, we do not know by what means you got her to make that retraction, meaning were you a stand up guy and responsibly went ahead and made the situation right with her?, or are you threatening her in some way and pressuring her into making the retraction through extortion or blackmail?

So by our policy, the post won’t ever be removed. If you honorably go ahead and make things right with her, the poster can happily add to or update the original post letting everyone know that the situation was successfully resolved to her satisfaction. If you stupidly try to threaten her or pressure her in any way, we will make sure your bullying antics are posted in an update to the report and then you will have done yourself a greater disservice. Threats from an offender is all the more reason the postings about such men who resort to bullying instead of being responsible and just making things right, and need to remain on line for the common good and protection of all escorts.

We prefer that the parties resolve their disputes amicably before it comes to posts and warning others, and in the circumstances where a post has already been made, we strongly encourage escorts to post updates any time their complaints have been satisfied.

6. Shouldn’t National Blacklist review and verify all complaints before they are posted? No, not only is that not our role or our job, but we are not in a position to ever determine which side is telling the truth. Although our Terms of Use prohibit users from posting false information, we simply cannot serve as the judge or jury and get involved in disputes between two parties with contending issues about a private encounter. And because we cannot and do not get involved that doesn’t mean we should go ahead and remove the posts just because you want us too. We do not make the posts, therefore we do not edit them or delete them. This is a third party posting platform and the “users” take responsibility for what they submit. Period!

7. "I want the post regarding me removed immediately?" As adamant as you may be about wanting the post about you removed, the escort who made the post is just as adamant about wanting the post to remain. So what would you like us to do now?... side with you?... or feel badly for you because you’re suddenly exposed on the internet for all your friends, family, and employers to see? Frankly, that’s not our problem. And you should have thought of that before you disrespected or mistreated the lady. If you deny ever contacting or contracting with an escort, how would we know that, or if you’re telling us the truth?

Just so you know, that most men who claim that they have never been with an escort, we’ve been able to easily verify that they have from phone numbers, email addresses, and the ip addresses in their communication with the ladies they communicated with or booked.

8. What if the original author asks to remove her post? The post will stay anyway. Consider this example. Let’s say you stood up a lady or scammed her by shorting her an agreed upon amount of money. After discovering you are listed in our registry, you decide to contact her and make things right with her, it’s very likely you are only doing that so that you can get removed from our list of bad guys. If you were a stand up respectful guy in the first place you would not have scammed her in that way in the first place so your actions, motivations, and future intentions are still questionable. If you made things right with the lady, she can always update the report saying the matter has been successfully set right, but your original intentions to be disrespectful or rip her off will remain to warn other ladies of your innate values and character in that you are capable of doing this, and for them to be on alert and to manage their business with you accordingly.

Again as a matter of policy, National Blacklist does not want to encourage escorts to post haphazardly. When submitting they agree to the following statement in our Terms of Use.

"By posting this report, I attest this posting is valid. I am giving National Blacklist irrevocable rights to post it in its registry. I acknowledge and agree that once I post my report, it will not be removed, even at my request. I accept that I can always update my report to reflect new developments with the offender by submitting them to National Blacklist."

9. "If I file a lawsuit against National Blacklist, will that get my complaint removed?" No. National Blacklist is a 3rd party posting platform, and according to Federal Law, a website is not responsible for posts made by its users or members. Therefore, it will not remove complaints even if you sue us or try to.

10. "I Know the CDA, Communications Decency Act, Protects National Blacklist, But I still want to sue National Blacklist anyway!" If you file a lawsuit which you know contains false claims, meaning you lie and deny ever communicating with escorts, or seeing and hiring escorts, and we obtain proof you did through her email, phone records, and recorded ip addresses etc., as well as through your subpoenaed recored, you and/or your attorneys can be subject to serious sanctions at the judge's discretion. You will then be liable to pay some or all of our attorney's fees in addition to penalties a judge may issue.

This civil liability precedent is designed to protect against frivolous law suits, and serious penalties and sanctions can occur if the judge determines you filed a frivolous lawsuit. It is known as "wrongful use of civil proceedings" and it is defined by § 674 of the Restatement (Second) of Torts as follows:

(a) he acts without probable cause, and primarily for a purpose other than that of securing the proper adjudication of the claim in which the proceedings are based, and
(b) except when they are ex parte, the proceedings have terminated in favor of the person against whom they are brought.Because National Blacklist is immune from liability under the CDA for defamation-based and related claims, any suit that you seek to impose liability upon us for the free speech of our users is, by definition, an action brought "without probable cause.”

So, National Blacklist wants to be clear that it accepts no liability for the speech of its users, and it will vigorously defend any litigation brought against us which seeks to circumvent the CDA. Again, any suit filed against us without probable cause may subject you, the complaining party and/or your attorneys, to liability for wrongful use of civil proceedings. If you knowingly file a baseless or frivolous lawsuit against us, regardless of where your case is filed, you and/or your lawyers will be subject to a counter lawsuit in which a jury could award National Blacklist both substantial compensatory and punitive damage awards.

11. "I want the name of someone who posted the report about me. How can I get that?" Our Terms of Service and Federal Law require us to protect the First Amendment rights of our users by safeguarding their privacy to the fullest extent of the law. This means that National Blacklist will not release the contact information of any known user of the website without a lawful court order.

12. "Someone posted a report which violates National Blacklists’ Terms of Service. Will you remove it?" Although our Terms of Service prohibit users from posting false information, we cannot serve as the judge or jury in any “he said, she said” disputes between two parties in their private matters. If you contact us and demand that we remove information because you contend that it’s false, we have no way to determine that what you say is true either, or if the information that was posted is really true and accurate. These issues will have to be determined in a court of law, not by us. So, if you allege that a post contains false and defamatory statements, you should pursue legal action against the author if you determine that such action is warranted.

13. "No membership necessary to Post? So anyone can just post anything they want on your website and ruin someone’s reputation?" Many of you men assert that we must have a policy in place where only registered members are allowed to post, because without that, you suggest that anybody could just post whatever they want, and about whomever they want. After all of our years of experience doing this, it has become fairly evident that posts on National Blacklist are not Capricious and Arbitrary: Contrary to many unhappy men's assertions, escorts who post on this site take their time and their safety seriously, and they have better things to do with their time than to make erroneous postings to destroy some innocent man's good name or reputation. Escorts do not haphazardly choose men's names out of the blue and start posting bad things about them. The postings are real, based on their perceptions of events, behaviors, statements, agreements, etc. and the history of your contact, communications, and negotiations. They emanate from their real customer encounters and when something bad enough occurs that warrants them warning other escorts about you, it is the male customer's actions or behaviors that provoked these escorts into making such postings on our site. So please do not blame us, or the ladies for registering a complaint about you, and playing mind games with us will not guilt us into responding or removing any posts. From the questions answered above, if you want a post removed, you know what you have to do legally to attempt to do so.

*Even if we did require memberships as some of you suggest, it wouldn't stop members or users from...

creating a membership "alias" so their identity is unknown anyway.
signing up with anonymous free emails (hotmail, yahoo, aol, msn, gmail, etc.) to conceal their identities.
paying for their membership with anonymous prepaid gift cards so payment records can’t be used to determine their identities or breach their privacy.

In essence we'd be no different a position than we are now!

14. "I wasn’t in that city at that date and time, so the report must be false!" If you find a post and see that a date or location is inconsistent with your recollections or your visit to a particular city, please note that many of the ladies who make these postings worry greatly about their personal safety and understandably prefer to remain unassociated as much as possible with the post. To aid in this, they may purposely omit, or mis-state the date and location in an effort to deflect, or throw off any direct association with them and the incident to prevent possible retaliation from the bad customer they are complaining about. The ladies assume, and National Blacklist accepts, that the “gist” of their report is sufficient to get their point across to the other ladies, and exact dates and locations are simply not relevant. In other words it is the behaviors and attitudes of the client that matters, the exact date and location is immaterial. While many of you have tried to argue this point with us, we do not know if a date or location is untrue just because you say so, and if either the date or location has been altered, it does not invalidate the escort's assessment or warning of your behavior or character, therefore warranting the post's removal.

15. Our Responsibility, and Hard-line Position: Our position does not imply that we feel all ladies and their posts are right and that all males in our registry and their denials are wrong. It just means that by policy we won't just blindly take a man's word over the lady's, and remove a post just because he wrote us and claimed the report isn't true. To do so would be detrimental to the trust, credibility, and confidence we've built with the women working in escort community, and it would completely undermine this website as a valued and trusted safety and resource tool for escorts. That isn't something we are going to do. Our site is designed to protect escorts, and we believe the ladies have better things to do than to make up lies about the men they see. Until a report is proven false or a poster is proven to be misusing or abusing the privilege of posting by making any false or malicious statements, we will stand by the poster.

16. Have we ever removed a posting? Yes, but it's rare. Over the years, we have removed a few posts. For example: Once we removed a post regarding a man who was accused of being a cop and busting an escort, yet in the escort’s report she also stated the man's occupation was finance and real estate. How can that be? This obvious contradiction could have been an innocent mistake by the escort, confusing two different appointments, or it could have a blatant mistake to punish the customer and make sure no other escorts book with him. We did two things. We contacted the escort and pointed out the inconsistency in her report and asked her for clarification. She declined to get back to us, which did not fall in favor with us.. Secondly, from the gentleman's name and contact information, we easily verified though various industry sources that this man was a long and established upstanding member of the real estate and finance community and therefore could not have been a police officer who arrested the girl as the escort stated in her posting. We, therefore removed the report, and we will coincidently be keeping a close eye on any postings that escort ever makes again.

17. Regarding ladies who do not own up to a post: Gentlemen, because you think you might remember who you might have had a bad encounter with, or a possible misunderstanding with, and you go ahead and contact the lady, if she doesn't wish to discuss the post with you, or denies posting it, it doesn't mean she has to own up to it to you, and it doesn't means you have the right to pressure her, or intimidate her to remove the post. She honestly may not have made the post, and it could be someone else who made the post, because men who disrespect escorts, stalk and harass them, tend to be consistent in having the same character attitudes and behaviors toward all escorts. This means if you have a habit of cancelling last minute or no showing with appointments, it could be any number of ladies who made the report, and not necessarily the one you are thinking of.

So who really knows which escort made the complaint against you? Another plausible explanation is that an escort could have made a post about you on another blacklist site, and some other well intentioned escort may have reposted it here. Again, we do not know. We just want you to know that there are many possible explanations to account for how a posting got on our website.

18. "I am on the “Whitelist” Does that account for anything?" While being on the Whitelist is certainly commendable, it does not preclude you from having an unexpected misunderstanding with an escort that leads to bad feelings, or feelings of her being wronged. Most times when a customer gets listed on our site, it is not because a misunderstanding took place, but in how that man chose to behave in dealing with that misunderstanding.

19. The Escort is retired or no longer in the business: Many of you men have discovered you are listed in a registry long after the escort who posted the complaint about you has retired or left the business, and somehow you feel that is enough to get the post removed. What you are failing to realize is that postings on National Blacklist act like character references among escorts and escort agencies because it details your history of attitudes and actions, thus your character when you are dealing with escorts. For another industry example. Let's say you failed to pay on a department store credit card some years ago, and there is a black mark on your credit report. Your line of thinking suggests that if the department store closes or goes out of business, that the black mark on your credit report should now be taken off. Sorry, it doesn't work that way in the credit industry, and it doesn't work that way in ours. So, if a lady is no longer in the business and you cannot contact her to make amends with her, then you are out of luck and the post will remain.

20. National Blacklist can be used to Extort or Blackmail Customers? It has been suggested by a few men who’ve written to us that we should take some type of action to prevent our blacklist from being used as blackmail. While we are not sure how we could ever accomplish that, please note that everywhere in society there are honest and legitimate products and services that are occasionally used inappropriately by a deviant few, and the law places responsibility on the individual’s behavior, not the company that produces the product or service. What you hobbyists are suggesting is akin to asking a weapons manufacturer to do something that’ll prevent their guns from being used in the enactment of a crime, or like asking automobile manufactures to prevent an angry wife someday from running over her husband if she ever caught him cheating on her. Our service is what it is, and if an individual chooses to exploit our product for an illegal purpose, then that individual is responsible for their actions. The laws of our land deal with people as individuals thus making each person personally responsible for their decisions and actions, and we shall follow that precedent.

Analogous Thought: We wonder if you hobbyists would want the TER or BigDoggie to shut down their websites because way too many hobbyists constantly abuse their posting power by pressuring, blackmailing, and extorting escorts into giving free or full services? We bet it looks a whole lot different when viewed from the other side, doesn’t it?

Conclusion: If you are ever threatened with blackmail or extortion by any escort who posts or threatens to post you on this site, we strongly recommend that you report that correspondence and the offender to the police immediately.

21. Similar Name hurting your reputation: In the event that a name posted in our registry happens to be the same as yours, there is not much we can do about it. Imagine if a serial killer named John Smith existed. Do you think the media, the news papers, and the police are going to withhold the name of John Smith from the public because they are worried about all the other John Smiths around the country who might be upset because they could be mistakenly associated with the serial killer John Smith? In the interest of Public Safety the common good prevails, and the details will sort themselves out. Postings in National Blacklist are usually accompanied with phone numbers and email addresses and occasionally other identifying physical description information about the real offender to separate him from others who innocently happen to share his name. This information should aid you in cases of mistaken identity.

22. Use of your last name in a report. "Please Remove My Last Name!" Many of you men write in and do not deny the complaint posted about you, and have the audacity to ask us to at least remove your last name from a post because, when Googled, your full name yields a search result of a National Blacklist posting complaint about you that is being, or can potentially be, catastrophic to your personal, work, and/or family reputation.

We could be catty and suggest that this is something you should have thought of before you decided to beat up, rip off, short, harass, stalk, or otherwise mistreat escort, but we actually have a good reason for maintaining the posts exactly as its author had intended. It is because many men who see escorts hide behind aliases and escort review board handles, free anonymous emails, and prepaid cell phones, your last name may be the only thing that cannot be changed (unless legally) and keeps you linked to the post and your culpable behavior.

Because you know you can quickly and easily create new aliases in the form of new review board handles, new anonymous free emails addresses, and you can get a new prepaid cell phone #, you can effortlessly change your cyber identity and hide your past. Without a last name on your report, it would basically render the posting complaint about you obsolete and useless. That's why if there's a last name written by the submitting author, it stays.

23. Your name is "Copyrighted." On a few occasions, some prominent businessmen and pseudo celebrity types whose names appear in National Blacklist have made requests and even demands that we remove their name under the guise of legality, because their name is supposedly "copyrighted" and thus illegal for us to have posted on our site. Note: There is little your copyrighted name is going to do to protect you in this instance. You name is not listed on National Blacklist because we or anyone else is trying to profit, or commercially benefit by it by reposting your name or your copyrighted material. That's all your copy right protection really affords you.

The "fair use" exemption to (U.S.) copyright law was created to allow things such as commentary, parody, news reporting, etc., so your copyrighted name does not preclude your name from being posted in a magazine, a news paper, mentioned on a TV news broadcast, someone's blog, or our website, especially when the posting is not trying to use or impersonate you or your work. If you appear on National Blacklist, it is because an escort has chosen to share a complaint about you and how you mistreated them. Your copyright does not protect you from that.

To Learn: What does my Copyright Protect -or

Search Copyrights and Trademarks: USPTO (United States Patent and Trademark Office Website)

24. Threatening us with the Police, or your Attorneys: Many of you have suggested and even threatened, to go to the police, or your attorney's to sue us if we do not immediately comply with your removal requests. Please note, that we respect your desires to pursue any legal course of action you choose to engage in, but we will not be bullied by your posturing and we have been instructed by our attorneys to ignore your threats and not to respond to your emails. Please note that we will fight to protect the FREE SPEECH Rights of the escorts who post on National Blacklist, and if your attorney's are worth anything, they will tell you that you will be fighting precedent established by the Supreme Court, which was challenged and upheld three times since 1997, when it comes to individual's FREE SPEECH Rights and posting ananymously on the internet.

*If you do pursue legal action, you better make sure you know what you are doing and know exactly how far you want to take it, because you'll be taking an awfully risky chance that the escort who posted about you hasn't saved all your correspondence and has phone and email records to counter your claims. And then if you lose, you can thank your own arrogance for bringing all that unnecessary and messy public attention to yourself and your indiscretions,. Oh, and of course, we'll thank you for the publicity!

25. No Shows and Last Minute Cancellations: So many of you men write in complaining that your family life, or employability (because you are currently looking for work), is in jeopardy because a National Blacklist report about you comes up when your name is Googled. You try to appeal to our better nature, by stating that "It was only a "no show, and besides, she's only an escort so it's not like she really matters," and that arrogant condescending reasoning becomes your argument for feeling like it's not a legitimate reason for you to be blacklisted and have your life ruined.

Gee, we wonder if your wife would feel the same way if you stood her up and made no courtesy call to tell her you could not make your date with her, and further made the issue worse by not showing her any respect and taking responsibility by returning her messages she left on your voice mail wondering where you are. We wonder if you would consider doing the same thing to your boss for a meeting or a drink after work. The fact that you seem to pick and choose to use good manners in one situation with your wife or boss, and then chose to be blatantly rude and inconsiderate in another (like when you book a date with an escort), shows the height in arrogance and deliberate disrespect.

Whether you realize it or not, an escort has a lot of preparation time that precedes her appointment with you. If it's an incall appointment at her place she not only has to make sure her incall location is clean, the place smells nice, cold beverages in the fridge, etc., then she has her on personal preparation time, to shower, to do her hair, put on makeup, and get dressed and all dolled up just for you, which can take some ladies up to 90 minutes. If she has to do an outcall to your location she may have to spend the 90 minutes with her personal preparation time to look great for you, and then she has to make an allotment of time to commute to your outcall location, meaning your home, apartment, or hotel room. Depending on whether she uses a driver, a taxi, or drives herself, there are expenses in time and money that she incurs to go along with her commute. All this happens, not to mention the fact that while you stood her up or cancelled at the very last second, she more than likely lost money by possibly losing an appointment she could have booked with another more serious and respectful customer.

Many of you argue that no shows and last minute cancellations happen all the time, that doctors, lawyers, accountants, dog groomers, hair stylists, etc., deal with this all the time and it’s no big deal. While that may be true from your angle, they all have their rules and conditions in how they deal with such circumstances. Other than the fact that those services are not as intimate and personal as booking a date with an escort, it’s understandable why escorts have their own rules regarding being stood up.

Being rude and standing up a date is all about your bad attitudes, your lack of respect, and provides insights into your character. If you think you can book an appointment with an escort, call and confirm with her so she knows to get ready for you, and then just be an asshole and not call, not show, and not even return her messages afterward without so much as an apology or explanation, that makes you an insensitive jerk, and that's why you appear on National Blacklist and will stay.

We know accidents and emergencies happen, but that's why you have a phone to call your date and explain to her why you won't be able to make it. If you go to the well again and again and pull the "last minute emergency came up" card too often, you'll likely find yourself listed as a liar and a perpetual timewaster. And you know something... your problems should not become other people's problems, and when you do that to other people, you get a bad reputation for being immature, irresponsible, and disrespectful.

Also, if you are one of those immature practical jokers that think it's funny to book and outcall appointment and purposely give the escort the wrong or bad address like some college pizza delivery prank, or you just don't show up to her incall, your immaturity will get you listed here as well.

If any of these disrespectful and irresponsible behaviors are part of your character, we think that maybe your family, your employers, or perspective employers should know this about you, so it is not inappropriate for you to be blacklisted on our site.

Seeing an escort is not a right, It is a privilege, only to men who know how to be gentlemanly and respectful. You do not have any rights to mistreat escorts. They are not lower on the social scale so you have an excuse to purposely be rude to them. If you think escorts are nothing more than whores and prostitutes that you can unload your bad attitude and issues on, or you just want to have some fun and mess with their schedule, and who gives a shit about them anyway, then you will very deservedly wind up on our blacklist, and here you will stay.

26. Our Mission: is to protect escorts by allowing them a centralized location in which they can exchange information with each other. Our publicly assessable database employs the same strategy as "public safety blotters" all over the country that communities and their police departments have used for hundreds of years by listing offenders (like in the Sunday morning newspaper or on the 11:00 news) for everyone in the community to read and hear about. If a male customer doesn't want to bring shame on themselves or their family, then it better be in the back of his mind to think twice about what they are doing, or are about to do, and stay on their best behavior. And when all men are on their "best behavior" with escorts, then it makes it safer for all escorts. And that is our intention!

27. Legal Action: In the event we ever receive a court order to remove a post, we will first fight that court order, and depending on that outcome, your post may or may not remain. Just because you have some social or political status and the money that goes with it, it doesn't mean you are going to be able to hide or use your influence to make your transgressions go away, We are ready willing and able to fight to protect the rights of all escorts to share their experiences with each other, and our rights to host the open communication platform that protects their business, their time, their personal safety, and their Free Speech Rights.

A Quick Summation of this Page

Posts will not be removed, so don’t bother asking, or demanding!
We will not provide you the name of any poster under any circumstances!
We will not provide you with a complimentary copy of any posts!
We will not ask the poster to contact you!
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We realize our rather adamant position places you at a disadvantage, but we have a responsibility to protect the ladies here, that's our business. And for you men who hire escorts, you should know that there are risks involved when you employ adult entertainers. If you chose to engage with an escort and you decide to change your mind, or need to cancel, or the encounter does not go well... "You have any number of ways in which you can handle these situations, none of which will get you listed here! Remember to be a gentleman, make a courtesy call if you can't make it, be sincere. If an appointment or session goes badly and you both had misunderstandings or different expectations, again, handle it like a gentleman. If you can't or don't, it is likely you will wind up being listed here.

We hope that this page is helpful. If you find yourself listed here, and have a view point you wish to present that is not already addressed above, please go ahead and write us. Please do not read into this invitation more than what is written. It only means we are willing to read your correspondence and hear your position, and based on its merits, you may or may not get the satisfaction you seek.

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Staff at National Blacklist.

PS Spread the word. Let the other men in your national or local hobbyist or community groups know about National Blacklist. Share with them the havoc it is causing in your life so that the other men can avoid the same fears, hassles, and repurcussions you are. Let them know, if they choose to engage with an escort and treat her badly or with disrespect, there’s a very good chance they will be listed here, and with no chance of getting off the list wihtout first bringing attention to their situation through their own legal action.

We hope you good guys will work with, or at least help influence the bad guys to play more nicely with escorts. When all of you you guys start working together to promote more respect for these ladies, then we’ll find out just how "community" minded you hobbyists really are.

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Last Update: October 18, 2009

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