D&S
Abbreviation for dominance & submission.
Dacryphilia
A Paraphilia where one becomes aroused by crying, by their tears or their partners.
Daisy Chain
Sexual activities in which several people are stimulating each other's genitals simultaneously.
Daka
Tantric sex term meaning male healer.

Dance and Dash

A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide, might offer to "dance" and leaves.
Dark Meat
Slang term referring to a black male or female.
Darma
Tantric sex term meaning one's divine purpose.
Darshan
Tantric sex term meaning inner vision.

Date

A session with a prostitute. A man who patronizes prostitutes.
Date Rape
Forceful sexual contact with an unwilling partner, usually preceded by social interaction or foreplay.

DATO

Dining at The O (rimming anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus )
DATY
Acronym for Dining at the Y. Cunnilingus. Slang for performing oral sex on a woman.

DDE

Doesn't Do Extras
DDF

Abbreviation used in personal ads for Disease/Drug Free.

DDG

Drop Dead Gorgeous

DDP

Double Digit Penetration (pussy and anus)

Deep Throat
Slang for inserting the penis down one's throat during fellatio.
Deep Tongue
Term for french kissing, or oral-vaginal sex where the tongue is inserted deep inside the vagina.

Defender

A poster who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.

Delta Omega Gamma

DOG.

Deposit

A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session.
Deosculate
To kiss another person affectionately.
Depuscelate
To lose one's virginity.
Desire
A state of sexual arousal. The first stage of the sexual response cycle.
Deva
Tantric sex term meaning a God or cosmic power.

DFE

Dead Fish Experience
DFF

Dead Fish Fuck
DFK
Abbreviation for Deep French Kissing.
Dharma
Tantric sex term meaning high spiritual path.
Dick
Another term for the penis.
Diddle
Slang for female masturbation or touching the vagina.
Dildo
A sex toy, usually made of silicone, rubber or jelly, which is used to enhance sexual pleasure by insertion into the vagina or anus.
Dink
Slang for penis.
Discharge
Ejaculation of semen through the penis as a result of orgasm, or a slow expulsion or "drip" of fluids from the penis caused by a sexually transmitted disease.
Discipline
The other part of Bondage (B&D) that could also mean with holding, training, corporal punishment, or a structured training of a submissive.

DIY

Do It Yourself (masturbation)

Doggie

Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.
Doggie Style

Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.
Doggy Style
Slang for sexual intercourse where the male penetrates the female from behind.
Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix
The person who is in charge in a BDSM relationship. If the person is a male is called Dominant or Dom; if is a female is called a Domme, Domina or Dominatrix.

Donation

Payment or fees for an escort or provider.

Can be listed in several ways.

$ $100
$$ $200
$$$ $300
$$$.5 $350 (get it?)

Dong
Slang for a dildo.
Double Click the Mouse
Slang for masturbation.
Double Dildo
A two-sided dildo, where either end can be inserted.
Double Dong
A two-sided dildo, where either end can be inserted.
Double Penetration
When a woman is penetrated by two men simultaneously; one in the vagina and one in the anus.
Double Standard
The idea or standard, which relates that one group has more options or privileges then another group within society.

Doubles

A threesome with two girls and you
Douchebag
An insult similar to "asshole" or "jerk".
DP
Abbreviation for double penetration, or digital penetration.
Drag
Assuming both the dress and mannerisms of the opposite gender.
Drag Queen
Slang for a male who dresses in female clothing.
Driving it Home
Slang for sexual intercourse.
Dry Humping
Slang for simulating intercourse by rubbing up against a partner while fully clothed.
Dry Sex
See Dry Humping

DS

Doggy Style

DSL

Dick sucking Lips

DT

Dining at the Toes
DT

Deep Throat
Dual-Action Vibrator
A vibrator designed to stimulate both the clitoris and vagina simultaneously. Dual action vibrators often perform more than one function. For example, some dual action vibrators have rotating shafts as well as vibrating clitoral stimulators that can be adjusted separately.
Dual-Purpose Vibrator
A vibrator designed to stimulate both the clitoris and vagina simultaneously. Usually referring to a vibrator that consists of a traditional shaft, with a clitoral stimulating fixture attached to the shaft that rotates and stimulates the clitoris during use.
Dual Vibrator
A vibrator designed to stimulate both the clitoris and vagina simultaneously.
Dumper
Slang for the anus.
Dungeon
A room designed for S&M play.
Durga
Tantric sex term meaning warrior goddess.
Dutch
Slang for a bisexual man.
DVDA
Penetration of a woman simultaneously by four men; Abbreviation for "double vagina, double anal".
Dyke
Once known as a derogatory term for lesbian, some in the lesbian community now uses the term casually.
Dystychiphilia
A Paraphilia where someone gets pleasure from accidents.